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Seven Keys Tips To Attract The One You Want!
The following keys are for the divorced or recently separated who are willing to try and love again. However, the keys are by no means all inclusive. But they will give you an insight into attracting the right people into your life.
1. POSITIVE THOUGHTS
“The thoughts you think and the words you speak, determines your whole world”. So look around you and listen to your language to get an indication. Your outside world is a reflection of what is going on inside you. So if you don’t like your outside world start feeding yourself with some positive thoughts and language!
2. ASK BETTER QUESTIONS
If you ask yourself bad questions such as ‘Am I good enough?’ or ‘Will he/ she like me?’ you will continue to feed your habits/ beliefs with bad answers! So ask better questions, such as “What great people can I attract into my life today”? And you will get better answers. Remember ‘you get what you focus on’!
3. KNOW YOUR STRENGTHS
Don’t compare yourself to others; it only devalues who you are. You are your own person with unique qualities separate to another person. Take time out of your day to think of all the things that makes you special.
4. BE HAPPY
Nothing is more attractive than someone who is happy and confident with who they are and what they are about. If you are walking around with the weight of the world on your shoulders, or you are hurt or angry about past events, it is not that attractive; you need to let it go. See below for more.
5. LET GO OF BELIEFS THAT LIMIT YOU
If you are not attracting what you want into your life chances are you have beliefs that limit you - ‘I’m not good enough’ or ‘men are untrustworthy” etc will attract situations/ people into your life to keep living those beliefs as true. Replace your beliefs to attract what you do want, instead of what you don’t want.
6. BE SPECIFIC AND KNOW WHAT YOU WANT
How easy is it when you go to a supermarket with a shopping list, you know where and what to get & you are out quickly? And how bad is it when you are starving and you have no list? You want everything and you have no idea what it is that you want, so you get everything, possibly more of what you didn’t want. Don’t wait for something to come along, know what you want to come along so you can identify it straight away when it does. See below for more.
7. TAKE ACTION
If you always do what you always have done, you will always get what you have always gotten. If you are not happy with what you have, demand more for yourself. Make changes in the way you do things or the way you behave or seek an expert in the field. This will certainly obtain different results, will it not?
If you are someone that really wants to breakthrough the barriers and liberate yourself from the past to attract what you deserve so as to achieve a better, happier and more fulfilled future. Call Nadia a specialist in Post Relationships on (02) 8235 9802 See our listing on i-dont directory
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MORE re point 4: If you don’t like what you see and I mean not accepting yourself or not seeing the beauty you do possess, then chances are you will attract what you believe you are worth. If you cannot see or free yourself take part in my fast track programme to successful relationships with yourself and others. Happiness is a journey not a destination. Focus your attention on making you happy first, it’s when you are in your element that you are the most attractive. Remember “your partner should be an added gem in your life not the only gem in your life”
MORE re point 6: Ask yourself “what is important to me in the context of ____________ (relationships, career etc), you will get answers like, honest, trustworthy, love etc or it can be small sentences. You will get a nice list so you and your unconscious mind are clear on what you want. Then number them in importance to you. I get some that do this and their main goals are to be in a committed relationship and they don’t even have trust on their list or its number 30. You get what you focus on. One great idea is to put the list up where you can see it everyday. Should you meet that someone special, check your list. Don’t compromise it just to be with someone, you will find that it is what you yearn for later. It will save you the time and heartache
Set goals and review them everyday or hang them up where you can see them. Be specific, keep them in the present tense, put a date to it and most of all be realistic. If you find you are not hitting your targets or not getting what you want, chances are you might have some stuff lurking on inside you that is sabotaging your success. Seek help to obliterating your sabotage patterns and getting your goals right! |